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[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Thank you for your answer <3 it already helps listening to someone who understands. And same. Finding other bi or lesbians women is hard in these times.. Especially when in my degree it's mostly straight males lmao. Like, in my class there's like 5 women. And this is many, because usually it's like 2 or 3 per class lmaoooo. Hugs <3 (ill answer to your other comment too in a while :))

[–]reluctant_commenter 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Aw, of course <3 I'm glad you posted about this!! Makes me feel less alone. Oof, your degree does sound pretty male-dominated, that sucks.

Also:

I feel increasingly frustrated because it seems like nowadays the only "normal" women are STRAIGHT!

I feel a little terrible saying it but I am also having this experience, hahaha. The few LB women I know my age are almost all on the pro-trans hype train. It's so painful to watch... and yet, I am well aware that I have little to gain and a lot to lose if I challenged them on it. It feels really fucking weird to be more comfortable talking with my straight friends about my sexual orientation or LGB issues than people who are actually L/G/B themselves.

Also no pressure on responding to my other comment, we've all got enough to deal with these days :)

[–]les4leshomonormative 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Are you a STEM major? >_<

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Yes ahahahahha

[–]les4leshomonormative 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

goddddddd

i'm in a branch of engineering that tends to have more women in it by which i mean... we're only outnumbered 2 to 1

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

yeah.. I'm in Informatics Engineer which here in my country is more popular than Computer Science, but they're both quite similar regardless. According to the statistics, it seems to be one of the engineering degrees that has LESS women of all. 🙃 I saw and it was like 15% women and 85% men hahahaha.

[–]les4leshomonormative 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oof!!!