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[–]WanderingWonderWizard Extraordinaire 50 insightful - 3 fun50 insightful - 2 fun51 insightful - 3 fun -  (11 children)

I’m beginning to wonder if the word “transphobia” even has any meaning anymore, or if it has joined the jumble of now non-words that are tossed around without any definitive meaning anymore, like “lesbian”. Basically anything that is not trans worship seems to be deemed transphobia now.

[–]turtleduck23 34 insightful - 4 fun34 insightful - 3 fun35 insightful - 4 fun -  (5 children)

add the words "fascist" and "Nazi" to the list. Whenever i see these words online it has nothing to do with the actual meaning of the word. Don't think tw are women or tm are men? "Fascist!". Don't want to date trans or pronoun people? "Literal Nazi!". JK Rowling? "Fascist Nazi Terf!"

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 21 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

It's a bit ironic that the people who accuse others of being bigoted or facists are more so themselves than those they accuse. The cancel culture, cries for legislation to control people, and general hatred of wrongthink? That's awfully similar to what the actual, legitimate, original-definition-of-literal Nazis did in Germany back before and during WWII. It's constant deflection, these groups are accusing everyone else of being what they are. It's sad that so many people are fooled and refuse to question these groups at all simply because they point fingers.

[–]diapason 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yep. IIRC the historical Nazi book-burnings were led by students (and professors) too, and now we have a bunch of supposed progressives who are often in the younger set advocating for censorship and social control. Chilling

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's sad that so many people are fooled and refuse to question these groups at all simply because they point fingers.

I think those of us on the left can sometimes lapse into a lot of white-knighting and think anyone acting like a victim must be one. Those of us who don't know better, that is. But if you default to being a caring, compassionate position toward other people, you can very easily be played.

And that is exactly the drug that toxic narcissists need to constantly find new sources of. So they flock to caring listeners and manipulate the shit out of them. This is a known issue, so to speak. Narcissists do not point themselves at people who don't GAF. That doesn't feed their habit. They want attention and validation. The slur "bleeding-heart liberals" isn't entirely irrelevant though it is usually used in a different way. Anyone who is kind and willing to listen is a target. It's pretty simple. We give, and they take. But first they have to construct reasons for us to give what they want to take.

The lefties who aren't really self-aware or might be insecure themselves, have issues with being rescuers, etc., then jump on their horses and go on crusades to protect or advocate for these people. It's a perfect fucked-up-family dynamic. It is, in fact, a manifestation of the Karpman Drama Triangle:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karpman_drama_triangle

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And if they mention colonialism, then they are generally social colonizers who assign people “identities” and put people in boxes and accuse them of self-hatred when they don’t act consistent with their prescribed belief system. Also see accusing people of “acting against their own self-interest.”

[–][deleted] 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Transphobia is anything that hurts trans people's feeling or doesn't make them feel validated.

[–]ExecuteHomophobes 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

So telling the truth then.

[–]ExecuteHomophobes 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I consider the TP word hate speech against women and gay men.