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[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I think that the spit attraction model has some merrit but not as much as they give it credit for. I think it is possible for someone to be aromantic and __sexual or __romantic and asexual, but the heteroromatic homosexuals or heteroromatic bisexuals? Those sound more like bisexuals (who are also biromatic according to the model) with some degree of internalized homphobia that makes them choose not to pursue romantic relationships with the same sex

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Sooo how do you explain that I'd never in a million years "love" a man, but I've had fantasies about being in a romantic relationship with a woman & I can only ever see myself feeling love for a woman?

"Internalized homophobia" isn't real btw. Homosexuals can do things that you can't personally understand, it doesn't mean they just need to "see the light" and magically become like you.