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[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. And it’s not just when I go on a date with some "fella" who turns out to be FTM. If I’m dating a man who appears to be a nice guy, only for him to be extremely rude when he doesn’t get his way. When you fall in love with someone, you fall in love of what you perceive of that person. If it turns out that this person is different in reality from your perception of him, this affects your attraction to him, for better or for worse.