I'm asexual ally here and I've been observing this sub even before the ban. I also feel lonely because asexuals are very on board with TQ+ since our existence was first acknowledged by TQ+ and then twisted to some ridiculous shit like "asexual can feel sexual attraction sometimes and bang everyday". Ehhhh... I'm infuriated by a lot of things on TQ+ side. It's hard to find anyone discussing the idiocy on the A side but the T has always weirded me out as well and I'm glad I'm not alone here.

At first it was just me noticing the abnormal frequency of people identifying as trans or non-binary on the internet. I have always seen non-binary as just another phase like emo phase kids had. The thing is I wasn't so concerned about it as long as I believed non-binaries are the one who don't transition nor alter their bodies with hormones and surgeries. While with trans people I was reassured they had to be diagnosed by very competent therapists and they had to put a lot of effort to prove their issue is really there - that it couldn't be just a phase.

It all shattered when I saw stories on detrans sub and how easy it is to actually trans yourself. This is when I stopped being so passive about it or being in support of it.