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[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

I fucking hate the term "boy pussy" even when used by gay men (to mean asshole) and I hope it dies. Seriously think that's a big problem of why ftms are doing this shit is because gay men were already degradingly referring to buttholes as "boy pussies" anyway.

Also, I hate hate HATE the concept of "bottoms" being inferior. Actually I hate the concept as a whole anyway. In my experience nobody who uses that word unironically is ever going to be a fun person to be around. But she's basically implying that if you're a male and you "bottom" you may as well be a female, and since "bottoms" are considered submissive/subordinate/beneath "tops" or men, then that has very sexist implications.

Of course, to be clear, this isn't a FTM's fault. The gay community has to answer for this because they started it. It's sad that FTMs are going along with it, but still. I am not any less of a male because I'm feminine and/or because I have zero desire to stick my dick in some guy's ass.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 20 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

They're both honestly concepts that need to die off, because they're really not helpful for anyone.

I've noticed top and bottom is starting to seep into the lesbian community too, with women stereotyping other women as tops or bottoms, or saying X has top or bottom energy. https://www.reddit.com/r/BiologicalLesbians/comments/jbhx5y/heres_some_bingo_cards_for_yall/

[–]Shadow_Lurker 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

or saying X has top or bottom energy.

What even this shit mean? If you don't resort to stereotypes, this shit is practically meaningless.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The whole thing relies solely on stereotypes. I guess tops are supposed to be butch and dominant, and bottoms are femme and submissive, but like, that's just using straight dynamics in lesbian relationships. I'm sure there are women who have that dynamic, but I doubt it's the majority.

[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have no clue lol. Double point on queer bingo for being both homophobic and sexist?

[–]PassionateIntensity 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes! I hate this!!!