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[–][deleted] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yeah, all the tools to figure out your sexuality are in your body and brain already. A lot of the people asking these questions just need to get out of the house.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries"[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

From r/LBL, a lot of them feel trapped in their lives such as in a bad marriage with kids, they may have trauma, and/or some disorder that causes them to not have a stable identity. These are straight women who have no idea what it feels like to be attracted to women and grow up that way. They see lesbianism as an escape.