You don't have to apologize :) it is a direct contradiction. I wondered how it all "worked", it made no sense to me but I assumed that I must just be "uninformed" because that's what all the super woke people at my college claimed. So I decided to learn more-- and eventually I realize that gender ideology is like a religion with circular reasoning. That's how I ended up joining this group.

You have to understand that I was surrounded by people who were indoctrinated into gender ideology, and unfortunately many in my generation are. Further, I had already escaped an abusive family and was desperate for peer support-- I didn't want to believe that half my friends were deep into a cultish ideology.