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[–][deleted] 41 insightful - 1 fun41 insightful - 0 fun42 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

yeah, i've been noticing that too. masc woman, without fail, are asked their pronouns. It is the same with men who present more feminine. GNC now means you are either trans or nonbinary it's so fucking regressive.

[–]insta 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I remember that post about some ""GNC"" parent who's daughter misgendered her and I was like "wait, do GNC people use they/their pronouns?" I was so confused.

Almost every single GNC person I've met has been a lesbian woman and I've never encountered one who didn't go by her/she pronouns. I thought the whole point of GNC was not caring about labels and boundaries, not forcing others to use your words or else.

[–]peaked2020 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I’ve been asked my pronouns even when I’ve specifically asked to be left alone. Some people even avoid using any pronoun for me and keep it gender neutral by default. This is consistent with what I’ve heard from fellow butches. I am a woman.