Because women are expected to be nice to everyone in every situation. And if you aren't, you already know what happens. We get called derogatory names, threatened with sexual and bodily harm and everything else in between. The funny thing is that the lesbians who were aggressive about keeping our own spaces were thrown under the bus by other women and the woke lgbtq clownmunity - basically TRAs handmaidens - and got banned, de-platformed and kicked out from our own spaces. It's easier to shut women up, isn't it. Specially those who don't agree with men.