After talking with a trans man friend who finds it infuriating to be classified as a lesbian by TERFs, but also finds the loss of a community that was formative and central to his life before transitioning, we decided that trans guys qualify for alumnus status (if they want it) with lesbianism

Translation: "I want to be a man, but I still want to be allowed in lesbian spaces, and I decided it's ok for me to do that. But don't dare to call me a lesbian!"