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[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

That is what I am saying. They think "I can't be like that, I can't like men", while still strongly desiring for penis. This means this internalized homophobia is making them lie to themselves to believe any nonsense, to just not "become a gay".

For example in USSR prisons and army, there were men who were sexually abusing and raping other men, and prefering sex with men, but they were considering rape victims as "gays", while thinking themselves "I am not gay, because I was manly and I penetrated them, they are being penetrated - so they are gays, not me". While in reality victims were not choosing with whom to have sex, while "penetrator" was chosing to have sex with men, so only gay here is "penetrator".

Same thing.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, the old thing of considering the passive the only gay one because he's performing a role similar to that of a woman.