LifestyleHow old were you when you found out your were LGB?

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Knew I liked both male and female: very young age 6/7?

I had so many crushes since then, both boys and girls, I really can't single out which one, what year. There was a lot of them.

Learned the words gay/lesbian: around 6th grade/ age 11/12

Learned the word bisexual: had to be high school, so I'm gonna go with 14

First unofficial girlfriend: 15 (we didn't call ourselves anything, we were just together for a long while and did stuff together. When you're that age, sometimes it's easier to hook up, if you don't label it as anything.)

First unofficial boyfriend: 14 (he called me his girlfriend, but I'd never agreed to that, but obviously, looking back now, that's what it was.)

Coming out? I've NEVER been out to my family or any social circle that's even remotely connected to them. I once had to quit a job because my aunt knew someone who worked there and kept pumping that person for information about me and I was semi-out-ish there and it was too scary. I CANNOT have my personal life and my family life mixing, unfortunately. I was out to non-family since about 15-35 then I just unofficially went back in the closet, except for the internet, of course.