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[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Yeeep. I feel like I have no community, we have no bars, no lesbian only anything and the lgbtqwtf events are full of blue haired queer ~progressive ~ people

[–]3MistersAndAMissy 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Internet hugs.

I’m not lesbian but I know how much I have always loved the vibe of a female only space. I’ve been in lesbian spaces and they were beautiful. I never got hit on because women just nicely get a feel for you and don’t push things. (Or maybe I wasn’t that cute, lol)

I cannot imagine how awful it would be to have some tacky dude pushing his way into that space, demanding extra reassurance and attention, and creating divisiveness. Lesbians have to identify as ‘progressive ladydique accepters’ or be labeled ‘hateful exclusionary trfs’

Even as (mostly) straight women, my friend and I used to love to go to gay male bars to be left alone by men. (I really hope we weren’t invading their spaces in retrospect).

I wish you the best

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Aww thanks for the support 💖💖