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[–]marmorsymphata 30 insightful - 14 fun30 insightful - 13 fun31 insightful - 14 fun -  (5 children)

At this point, I’m almost addicted to calling myself a lesbian

Yikes. And of course his name is "Catgirl princess"

[–]RedditHatesLesbiansHomosexual Not Queer 29 insightful - 3 fun29 insightful - 2 fun30 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

Being an actual lesbian I have literally never called myself a lesbian in real life, let alone being addicted to it. It's almost like these AGP males face none of the repercussions real lesbians have when they're out and so constantly say it as part of a disgusting fetish 🤔

[–]3MistersAndAMissy 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

What do lesbians call themselves today? ‘Lesbian’ Was coopted. Then ‘true’ and then ‘actual’ lesbian was colonized.

I used to assume that internet dating was probably safest for lesbians but I would guess it’s the sketchiest now with all the creeps.

This is crazy and I so feel for you all.

[–]RedditHatesLesbiansHomosexual Not Queer 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I still call myself a lesbian, and if I'm ever forced to clarify or presented with a transbian to date I'll go, "I'm a homosexual female" since that hasn't been appropriated. Yet.

[–]3MistersAndAMissy 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I wish you all the best!!

I’m so sorry for what is happening in your community.

I’m so glad I’m not young now. I'm probably a touch bi. I really REALLY hope I would not have been one of those mostly straight girls appropriating the word lesbian and welcoming transbians on ‘behalf of lesbians’. Such total BS

It’s like how I am a small percentage ‘sub saharan African’. If I identified as black and welcomed in racists as long as they had a fetish for Black women. It would make the space unsafe for actual Black women at no risk to myself.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am calling myself lesbian as well, as I am not giving up on something that belongs to me.