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[–]julesburm1891 48 insightful - 1 fun48 insightful - 0 fun49 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Maybe it’s just me, but I can’t look at women like that. Spending my entire adolescence being ogled by guys, enduring creepy comments from dudes (e.g. my boss at my high school job), getting catcalled, and being made to feel awkward in my body gave me a different perspective.

My thoughts looking at women are very PG. I don’t go farther until I’m actually dating a woman.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 36 insightful - 1 fun36 insightful - 0 fun37 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

No, obviously it's not just you. I've never once in my life heard a woman speak about wanting to check the underwear WITHOUT freaking consent of other women 🤮 But creepy straight males? Yeah. It's so obvious that it's a male lol.

[–]julesburm1891 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah. It just feels so creepy and intrusive if you don’t already have something going with her.

Glad to know it’s not just me though!

[–]Jinera 14 insightful - 4 fun14 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Even when I am checking out a woman, and catching a glimpse of their cleavage (I am a boob lesbian what can I say) my thought process goes more like

"Wow...

Wow they look so beautiful.

Damn, she put some thought in that dress!

They look real soft though damn"

And that's it. It doesnt go into "oh I wonder what bra she wears" territory bc i dont care unless I am planning on sleeping with her. I dont think about seeing her naked either