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[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

But what has that to do with trauma anyway? I mean, being homosexual female automatically means not attraction/aversion to opposite sex organ. A lesbian attracted to male genitalia isn't a lesbian. It seems like we got to justify it with some trauma story. As being lesbians were not reason enough for being into pussy only.

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 24 insightful - 2 fun24 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, I noticed that too. The poor girl had to bring up her trauma just to shield herself from the internet hate, and it didn't even work at all. It's not trendy to care about rape/sexual abuse/trauma survivors anymore. They did the same to JK Rowling (with rape threats!)

I remember it used to be that sooo many rape/trauma survivors never felt comfortable enough to reveal that info IRL so they would come online to special forums on the internet and reveal it anonymously in online support groups, and even that was a huge emotional turmoil, to actually come out and say "yes, this horrible thing happened to me" even though you knew you were in a safe space where everyone was ready and eager to support you. Nowadays a 17 year old girl with her face visible and identity easily figured out, is having to share her trauma to hostile strangers as a form of self-defense, and it's completely meaningless. Like holy fuck, how did we get here???

[–]turtleduck23 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I remember many years ago some men believed that women were lesbians for two reasons: daddy issues or they were sexually abused. They just couldn't fathom that there were women who just weren't attracted to men, they believed something must of happen in their childhood.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 28 insightful - 3 fun28 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Or because they were too ugly to find men lol It's just the same shitty sexism and homophobia, but woke.

[–]PopeyesChicken 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Tangent but uhhh I kinda do think some women say they’re lesbians because they’re ugly. Don’t get me wrong I am a lesbian and I don’t think these women are really lesbians, and I get that when men say this they usually mean that lesbians aren’t real and we all want men under whatever trauma or problem we have which is bs. But I do think there’s this thing where you see these women that are unusually ugly (For example super obese like 500 pounds), these 1/10 type girls, calling themselves lesbians at a higher rate than average people and it’s weird. Those are the types where if they lost weight and could get a bf, a lot of them would drop the lesbian label and say they’re bi imo

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

And it would be easier for a super obese women to find a woman than a man? Plenty of men would do anything. And there are way more men into women anyway, so far easier to find someone. Also, I live in a country where obesity isn't a problem. So the fat lesbian stereotype doesn't exist. Only few people are fat.

[–]PopeyesChicken 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They would do anything, but they wouldn't date anything. They would bang her and leave. Men care a lot about the social status they get from who they date a lot of the time. even ugly men do this a lot. its easier to find a woman who will date you if you're extremely ugly (idk why you think im only talking about fat people) than a man because women are more likely to look past their partner's looks in relationships.