Gay MenR/LGBT cannot stand askgaybros user’s appreciation of men

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[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Okay and that gives you the right to trash talk a questioning person because...? And even with all those experiences, that's not "literally being MADE to be straight." I mean, I thought sexuality is impossible to change anyway, right? (And it's SUPER OFFENSIVE AND BIGOTED for evil Self Hating Gayz like me to say "I don't want to be this way, I am looking for a way out") So if that's true how can you be "made to be straight" ? At least be consistent.

I tried dating women out of obligation, too. It sucked. That I won't deny, and I still feel bad for hurting their feelings. But it wasn't torture, nor was it some kind of evil brainwashing technique that MADE ME DO STRAIGHT THINGS. It was just... boring. It's like trying to force yourself to enjoy a hobby you have 0 interest in just because your whole family likes it. A waste of time and can be stressful, sure... but nobody MADE me date women. (Actually I'm under more pressure to date guys. Even on this sub, ironically) And honestly being with guys is worse. So for that reason I don't blame you if it sucked but like... it's not because you're a lesbian, lol, that's just men.

"Hate" lmao. Pointing out that a bullshit concept is bullshit isn't "hate." Gay men do it too. Don't be a TRA. Just because you don't like someone's opinion, doesn't mean it's hate speech!

Sorry I don't believe in LGBTQ/GBTQ/any unified community. Solidarity is a lie and alphabet soup (no matter how many letters or which ones) only achieves echo chambers and makes people less likely to accept homosexuals.

And hey, if you want to "get the L out", nobody's stopping you. I'm all for dismantling it. Get it all out. Why don't you, though...? Oh... that's right. Because people are obsessed with this false idea of "solidarity" and leeching off others for clout and a false sense of happiness. Like how this forum is "LGB" but bisexual people are shat on in every other post.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

In many countries where gay men are executed, lesbian women are forced into marriage on a man, and they may have kids, and so on, this does not mean they love men at all and happy in marriage, they just does not have the choice. Or situation could be similar to mine, where it was a way to stop the violence "look, I am normal, like you", that does not mean I romantically or sexually like that man (or any man), it was just way to stop the violence against me and it was hope "maybe I can start loving men, so problems would just go away". And actually later in life fact that I was married saved me from corrective rape, as people were "she was married, and is just lost now or experimenting" and stopped on just beating me to show that "you are wrong dating women and go date men now".

LGB

Together not because solidarity, but because our problems are because of similar reasons, and our goals are almost identical. Not because any other reason. And this is main reason why TQ+ should be dropped from LGB - we have no similar problems, similar goals, similar experience with them.

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

n many countries where gay men are executed, lesbian women are forced into marriage on a man, and they may have kids, and so on, this does not mean they love men at all and happy in marriage, they just does not have the choice.

But that's not "comphet" either. That's arranged marriages, and rape. "Comphet" specifically is privileged radfem keyboard warriors whining that their experimental phase was "literally brainwashing and oppressive."

Also I'm not sure if the "where gay men are executed" bit was an attempt to get me emotionally invested, but regardless: Those types of coutnries usually have problems all over, not just against gay people but against everyone.

I also lie and say I'm straight, even to this day. Still not "comphet" nor anyone forcing me to do it. It's my choice. I can choose not to do it, if I wanted to, but I simply don't want to. People wouldn't like it if I claimed that this choice was actually something I was being forced into, because people would say I was being overdramatic and ridiculous. In fact I quite often get pressured to "come out" a lot and have people tell me I don't need to be scared, etc. But I'm not scared, or being forced, this is just my choice.

but because our problems are because of similar reasons, and our goals are almost identical.

But they aren't. They're wildly different. I can barely relate to other gay men, let alone bisexual people or lesbians. That's not me being hateful, either.