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[–]reluctant_commenter 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I had something super similar happen to me!! Person I was talking to was telling me about her "lesbian" friend who found her male love and married him, and "got kicked out of her lesbian community" and now goes around telling everyone she is lesbian still. I was like, calmly, "That's not lesbian, that is bisexual."

"But she feels deep down she is lesbian."

I'm like, "She can feel deep down anything she wants but it doesn't mean it is objectively true-- she is using her own different version of the word 'lesbian' that only means something subjectively to her. I can say I feel like I have 3 eyes but it doesn't mean it's true."

Cue a 20-minute discussion about whether words really have definitions. WTF. Oh and then it came up again when I was talking to her, and she changed her story-- told me her "lesbian" friend never told anyone she was lesbian. Seriously...?

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You can't spit logic and facts with these clown people

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 3 insightful - 5 fun3 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

deep down I feel I am a male model....