What some people say here is: "trans-identified female" instead of transman, and "trans-identified male" instead of transwoman.

It is not a big deal though, like others have said. I can't blame you dude, they are ramming stuff down your throat at school.

its clear to me that some of these individuals are distressed

I completely agree that they are, even if they are perpetuating a lot of nonsense. I respect your compassion in the face of all this craziness, we could use more of it.