People invoke “mean dyke” (re: mean radfem) as a way to guilt lesbians into lowering boundaries because it’s a lesbian stereotype that they are happy to believe applies to all of us. It’s the Trojan Horse that let all the non-lesbians in to begin with so it’s pretty ironic that we have been booted out of the community and now someone wants us to be “nicer” to males, as if being more “inclusive” was not the PROBLEM in the first damn place. How do they think every lesbian community ended up full of non-lesbians? Magical “fluidity”? Lol

Seeing another whole group of lesbian feminists condemned for being unpopular because people are not paying attention to who is who is maddening to me. We can disagree with women who are radfems and poli lez and whatever without completely booting the only lesbians who are on our side (for the most part) from the entire fight. Lol