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Dear cis people, you need to do all these things to be a proper ally!

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[–]Movellon[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Removed - Rule 2

[–]Feather 25 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

If more "cis" people did what that post advocates, we'd have a lot more "TERF"s. The only reason we have so many people saying, "Trans women are women," is because they haven't "educated" themselves.

[–]JulienMayfair 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My peak trans experience was trying to deal with a transwoman while volunteering for the Democratic Party in 2018. Picture trying to greet people at the polls alongside a large, tall awkward man-in-a-dress with a bad wig who would loom over people and be creepy and overly aggressive. And when we weren't poll greeting, he would constantly over-share about his many, many problems, including an extensive list of mental health issues. I'm pretty sure he did more harm than good for us.

That was an education.

[–]Smolders1Cock is god's greatest gift. 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Nope. Sorry, TRA. I'll acknowledge people as what they actually are (I refuse to feed into mentally ill people's delusions).

I will not respect pronouns because I'm not stupid enough to call a man dressing up in 'feminine' attire a woman.

I will continue saying that I refuse (not that I am not attracted to, refuse) to date trans people, as doing so would go against the meaning of sexual orientation, regardless of whether the person in question has had bottom surgery.

I will continue distinguishing trans women and men from REAL women and men.

I will continue saying that children should not be able to transition and that your community are utter scum for spoon feeding the youth your toxic narrative, as well as encouraging them to utilise hormone and puberty blockers that could possibly cause them brain damage.

I will continue saying that you support the normalisation of a mental illness and that you ultimately don't care about the collective wellbeing of society.

Sorry if this sounds harsh, but this is how I feel, they refuse to treat others with respect, so I don't see why I should treat them with said respect.

[–]julesburm1891 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Nah, I’m going to continue dedicating my free time to reading and baking bread instead of entertaining delusions.

“Cis” allies, please do educate yourself and read more into trans ideology. The uptick in peaking will be refreshing.

[–]BonesRedsMy pronouns are Yu/Gi/Oh! 2 insightful - 4 fun2 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

Wait, you mean you have hobbies outside of attacking people on the internet? /s

[–]julesburm1891 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I have actual interests/hobbies and don’t base my entire personality around my sexual orientation. It basically means I’m a unicorn and should probably have my own special gender label.

[–]BonesRedsMy pronouns are Yu/Gi/Oh! 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"Make sure you surround yourself with diverse experiences" Says the person who only talks about trans issues and won't hear a single word of criticism about them. Sure 🙄

[–]chazzstrong 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have absolutely zero interest in surrounding myself with mentally ill people.
I find it hard enough to deal with my evangelical relatives.

[–]NiceDickBro 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah look. How about I don’t?

[–]lazy-summer-godSuper Gay 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

How about no.