LesbianWho are these “cis lesbians” in relationships with transbians, you ask? Befuddled straight women who have been indoctrinated into believing they’re overcoming CompHet.

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[–]ghostraider 21 insightful - 13 fun21 insightful - 12 fun22 insightful - 13 fun -  (1 child)

'Are you a lesbian? Are you just delusional? Nobody will see you like a lesbian, what part of your experience is a lesbian experience?'

Someone should just answer her: No. Yes. None of it.

But it's like I have to teach her everything that just comes naturally to me (minus attraction to women). I feel like part of being a lesbian isn't literally just finding a woman attractive, but somewhat being involved in the culture, the media, a certain humour, the fashion etc. It's exhausting having to show it all to her and teach everything (on top of helping her so much with her gender gender presentation, and teaching her about clothes and makeup).

omg, that sounds exhausting lol Definitely if you are a lesbian/woman it is not exhausting in itself. I never passed any courses or homework to be a woman or a lesbian, did I just discover I am not one? Should I write my ex-gfs to tell them I actually don't have a lesbian diploma? Does that make them bi or straight? So many questions.

[–]Astrid2448 16 insightful - 10 fun16 insightful - 9 fun17 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

I actually laughed out loud. Forget that this woman is straight, forget that her man is straight, what’s really important is that she takes her boy over to the Subaru dealership so they can get their lesbian certificate. I can’t even believe lmao