The thing that annoys me is how much toxic behavior goes on in the alphabet soup community that makes people want to not be in their preferred relations ship and how much the community overlooks it. They are then called homophobic because they don't want to deal with the drama of huge age gaps, U-haul lesbians, bizarre BDSM fetish's, and the list goes on. This poor girl is almost 14 and her only experience of seeing LGB relationships is probably some non-binary woman dating a transbian who has done zero transitions but still demands female pronouns because their facebook icons is some underage over sexulized anime cat girl.

What I'm getting at is I wonder if this girl has ever witnessed a just plain old vanilla boring lesbian couple living their lives as people? I wonder if the lack of normal LGB relationship role models is what is causing her internal homophobia.