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[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries"[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's because it was written by someone who believes that being a woman is a feeling completely de-coupled from the female sex/female bodies.

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I think this is one of the consequences of women not being seen as sexual beings with sexual agency. I think these women are not expecting sex to be a big deal as a lesbian because they don’t think we fuck. Lesbians have way higher expectations than some dude and we are a lot harder to please in bed. I can’t imagine how any woman would believe she could be a lesbian without being attracted to the female body. Lesbians literally report the highest level of sexual satisfaction in terms of orgasms, of ALL women. not only do you need to be attracted to women, you have to be GOOD, and you have to know your own body.