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Its always some average looking otter in a crop top & with their nails painted. You strip them down naked, they look like "masc" men.

Wow, it's amazing to see someone else with a similar experience. I'm kinda like you, in terms of body/face I'm not very masculine. In terms of personality I don't try hard to be masculine but frankly I don't care about the stereotypical interests of the gay community either.

If I go to gay spaces I'll often be the least masculine guy there, phisically. But you have these bearded dudes acting like they're the most feminine men ever just because they say stuff they heard on RuPaul's. It's a way of being "feminine" that allows you to virtue signal in LGBT spaces, while you can also just drop these mannerisms when you need to look masculine.

Frankly I can't even remember seeing a thread complaining about masc 4 masc men that was made by an actually feminine cis man.