"I want to be in the LGBT community too!"

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[–]Wandering_Idiot 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Well, do you find women's bodies attractive? Sure you might not want to jump into the sack with just anyone but you could probably list a bunch of traits that a woman's body could have that you would find sexually attractive. There are reasons why many lesbians don't want to date trans women and many gays don't want to date trans men, because you aren't having sex with personality. I default to zero sexual attraction, when I look at even a beautiful body I don't feel any sort of sexual desire. I can't even come up with traits I find sexually attractive in my mind other 'healthy' and 'groomed', which I don't personally thing health and hygiene really can count as sexually attractive though it can kill sexual desire if you have some serious BO going on.

[–]Gearbeta 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I do find women's bodies attractive but what you're describing is not out of the ordinary for many people. Most straight people I've talked to have, like you, only found a limited number of people they're attracted to. And this is particularly common in many straight women, who report that seeing a hot guy does literally nothing for them and do not have any particular physical trait that they find attractive. I've talked to some women who tell me the most attractive things about men to them are if he's nice and if he listens. I've even met straight women who tell me that normally they find men's bodies repulsive and only the act of falling in love (emotional bond) with them makes them able to be sexually aroused.

[–]Wandering_Idiot 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I've even met straight women who tell me that normally they find men's bodies repulsive and only the act of falling in love (emotional bond) with them makes them able to be sexually aroused.

And we have a term for those people, they are called demisexuals.

[–]Gearbeta 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No one would think of them as special or somehow different than other straight women.

[–]Shinjin_NanaNopes faster than an Aeldari Jetbike 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We do.

It's called normal.

'Yes I'm asexual when it come's to Timmy's hairy belly, but Jim is cut af so I'm sexual around him. OOPS guess I'm alphabet soup demisexual then.'

You're seriously a riot, Wandering Idiot.