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[–]fuck_reddit 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I'm most put off by transwomen as a gay guy, mainly cause of the trans people I know, I'm only really close to a girl that has recently "come out" as a trans guy and is already invading gay spaces before even attempting to transition... also I know more about her personal life and I know that this isn't going to end well for her...

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 25 insightful - 2 fun25 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

There is something so obnoxious about people who don't even TRY to pass but demand entry into opposite sex spaces because they feel THAT entitled.

I kind of want to know your friend's story, but I also don't want to pry...

[–]fuck_reddit 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't want to share too much, cause I want to maintain her privacy, but in HS she was a lesbian whose entire personality became "I am so gay" and it was off-putting to me then, but it hadn't become her entire personality... now she's gone to college at a university that is deep into the trans dogma and it's consumed her... I think she definitely has internal issues with the fact that she could be a lesbian, either that, or she's bi and has created such a persona of "being gay" that she is afraid of not being "entirely" gay... either way, I think transitioning is about the worst thing for her...