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[–]artetolife[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This comes up a lot in discussions on gay forums - some of us NEED the possibility of reciprocation to be attracted to someone, but it seems like most people don't, or at least they can convince themselves that there's a chance that they can "turn" the object of their affection.