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[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (9 children)

Damn, you got a conversation?! They straight-up ignore my messages!

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

That's a lie and you know it. You were an Approved User in our prior subreddit, and we spoke with you all the time. You just didn't like our answers.

What we DIDN'T DO was answer your bad-faith questions that had been answered time-and-time again, and we didn't disclose private information about our conversations with your partner.

Come off your high-horse, Salty.

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

I'm talking about the multiple times I messaged you guys with issues only to receive no response whatsoever. "Bad faith" my ass. An honest question is an honest question. If you pick and choose which questions are deserving of an answer, then they are you a moderator? Being a moderator is not always easy. You're gonna get questions and likely, questions which you've already answered to someone else. But chances are that person isn't a psychic and doesn't know what answer you gave to a completely different person 5 months ago.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Are you talking about the numerous times you sent individual users PMs or chats instead of using "message the moderators"?

We still have access to our ModMail despite being banned, and I can see that we've answered every message you sent us there.

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

I've sent both PMs and modmails which have gone unanswered. Some of which are innocuous questions and couldnt at all be read as "bad faith."

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Once again, PMs and chat are NOT the appropriate way to reach moderators of a sub.

We as users are not your personal mod answering service. Leave individual users alone, and use "message the moderators" for sub concerns.

We stated that in our rules in the past sub, as well as currently in this sub.

Plus, it's just common sense. Why would you send an uninvited private message to one specific user about things related to an entire subreddit? Unless you're targeting that specific user?

So ... now that you've decided to make this your personal soapbox instead of just following the rules ...

To your claim of unanswered ModMail, the last message you sent us was 3 months ago, regarding a user targeting and spamming you both in the sub and privately. We replied, you responded, and we replied again. You responded again after that, but we didn't because it had no further bearing on moderating the sub, it was just ranting about your feelings about RadFems and/or Reddit. It had nothing to do with moderators or r/LGBDropTheT, and yes, that makes it bad faith to us. It comes across as you just trying to bait out a particular response that agrees with your worldview, and change the perception of the sub.

If you sent anything to mods after that, please do share and demonstrate how lacking we are.

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Aand the other unanswered, NOT-private concerns? And no, that wasn't actually the last modmail I sent.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

What are you even on about? "Unanswered, not private concerns" ... what?

Instead of this hyperbole, prove it. You made claims about moderators and this sub, provide evidence to support it.

I'll show our ModMail as defense.

Go.

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's not worth the effort. You'll just remain hostile, come up with excuses "we didn't do X because you're bad faaaiiith" or ignore the question. I have no interest in debating with someone who can't remain civil.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If you aren't willing to back up your claims, then stop the targeting and harassment against us.

Blaming us for your inability to stand up for your beliefs isn't a failure on our part.

I'm more than willing to share, but if you won't, maybe you shouldn't have jumped into this conversation at all.