I know it's difficult cleans your tears with a tissue We couldn't stop them from invading our spaces because they have already broken down the walls and invaded them years before we could move to do so. In order to not let them invade gay men's spaces, for now I firmly debate TQs be it in my university or online. When TQs post on the subreddits such as r/askgaybros, etc, I debate them in hopes of perhaps even one TQ lurking in there changing their mind. We should be firm. We shouldn't be "friendly" with the "trans" and the TRAs, that's what got us into this mess in the first place.

The lesbians before us failed to protect our space because they didn't want to seem rude, impolite, or unfriendly. But this is it, we should be firm and take no shit when the "trans-identified" females, "trans-identified" males and TRAs speak to us, if we did that then any more boundary violations could have been decreased.

The help we can do for now is to not let the "trans" think they can just go in r/askgaybros, r/gaybros, r/askgaymen, etc and say whatever they want. To not let there be silence so they realize they can not go after gay men, because then they will be bombarded with us criticizing and defending gay men and gay women. As we do this, we should do the same to r/actuallesbians, etc. By getting into conversations with the "trans" there even if they ban us, they did ban me two times and both times I deleted my reddit account and started going in there again