Gay MenFujoshi girl wonders why gay sex party isn't as inclusive as her college "queer" group.

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[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 41 insightful - 5 fun41 insightful - 4 fun42 insightful - 5 fun -  (7 children)

I really hope this is a troll post, I can't believe someone could be THIS stupid to walk into an all-men sex party as a not even "transitioned" FTM and be SURPRISED AND UPSET that they see her as female.

I'm an ACTUAL guy with a penis, but I also have feminine secondary sex characteristics. Never once have I felt iNvAlIdAtEd AnD hAtEd when guys have expressed to me that they're not into me because of it. (Though usually it's a wtf moment because I never actively seek out guys anyway, but thanks for telling me you're not into me even though I didn't ask?)

[–]PainfulTruthsMatter 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Could very well be a troll post. Poe's Law basically says that nowadays it's impossible to know for sure on the internet: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poe%27s_law

[–]insta 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

The whole "locked myself in the bathroom to cry" doesn't seem like a thing that people actually do. People do drugs in the bathroom at parties, people who are this uncomfortable and sad would just leave. Fuck I've simply just left parties for way less than this.

[–]Bogos 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Uh, women do this. Especially if stuck there because of rides etc.

[–]insta 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

lol @ carpooling to an orgy. If you're old enough to have multiple partners in one night you're old enough to order an Uber.

[–]Bogos 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

You’re assuming she’s responsible and with it at the time of the breakdown. You seem to be approaching all of this from the perspective of a mentally healthy gay man, there’s a reason feminism exists- women experience all kinds of trauma and torture on a daily basis that make this story as she describes possible.

One simple explanation could be not valuing herself enough to spring for the Uber ride if it were expensive, or simply not even thinking leaving is an option.

[–]insta 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I know a handful of trans people and I do not know one of them who is confident enough in their body to go to an orgy sight unseen and totally unexperienced, especially so early on in the "transition". Fuck I don't think any of my trans people even go to the public beach out of crippling anxiety.

Two months on hormone therapy and this person feels confident enough to go to a sex party? Sorry, I just don't buy it.

[–]Ko-hi 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My thoughts as well tbh I always try to think of the actual trans people I know when I read this type of bullshit, they are all (all two of them) wonderful and very shy people.

But these kind of asshats are so common on the internet that I don't know what to think anymore.