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[–]Criticallacitirc 54 insightful - 2 fun54 insightful - 1 fun55 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

What's the gay male/queer version of handmaids? Why didn't her queer friend from the group have sex with her ? He seemed to put that onus on everyone else apparently.

Also to cruise for two minutes & then freak out because people aren't slobbering all over you. 🙄 Unless youre a model, this is the case for everyone. There's an art to the game. This is why these people will never understand what it is like to be a gay man.

[–]artetolife[S] 33 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 0 fun34 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

When I had my cruisey phase I wasted my time and money about 50% of the times I went because nobody wanted me or my own confidence let me down. That's just how it goes lol. I think the "friend" really did set her up, there's no way I'd take someone to that kind of party for the first time without explaining the ettiquette and what to expect.

[–]PainfulTruthsMatter 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I mean seriously, those kinds of events are stressful enough as it is if you're struggling with body image issues without suddenly feeling obligated to cater to someone of the opposite sex showing up and demanding instant gratification and validation.

[–]insta 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

those kinds of events are stressful enough as it is if you're struggling with body image issues

Never really understood them. If you want to hookup Grindr is such an easier way to do than to go to these parties. I've never really had the high libido other gay guys have had but nonetheless I've never understood these events.