LesbianLesbians find it difficult to distinguish between their lack of desire for men and ... their lack of desire for men

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[–]Canardyyy 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

It’s not difficult to know who you’re attracted too and who you aren’t attracted too. For example, lesbians are attracted to other biological women and if they chose not to date someone with a penis, wether or not if they claim to be a woman, it’s perfectly fine and shouldn’t be considered transphobic.

If they were so concerned about their dating pool, they should date within their trans community or the pansexuals. But let’s face it, being a lesbian or with one is very fetishized within men.

[–]Jamiethiel2018 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

And the numpties are straight... no conversion therapy needed.

My heart breaks & I'm enraged for & on behalf of femmes.

I'm out of the dating pool, so I'm wondering: butch lesbians on OLD or IRL, do you get the same bs rapey approach?

[–]Canardyyy 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I’m also out of the dating pool. But I think butches are more or less considered eggs.

[–]Jamiethiel2018 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Yeah, perhaps just wishfull thinking that my younger sisters might survive.

[–]Canardyyy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I think at this point is just try to make them understand you concerns when the time comes. Hopefully when that time comes, they won’t be too deep into their “movement” and will see what you are trying to convey.

[–]Jamiethiel2018 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I've only had one friend say, "But isn't it more about the person?" SMH. I simply said, "It doesn't work that way." I know most bisexual women absolutely understand this point, but she didn't. It was much easier talking to straight friends as the instinctually know no woman what do.

when this hits the fun, it'll be our fault (if we can't seperate, & god knows they get too much mileage out of LGBT to drop the label) and part of me world like receipts to hold everyone accountable. Edit: spelling

[–]Canardyyy 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Honestly, they’ll blame us for their downfall, they’ll blame us because they can’t get laid, they’ll blame us for anything that goes wrong in their lives. But what they don’t know is eventually people will wake up, realize what they are saying is absolutely nonsense and come to terms that it’s wrong. And don’t worry, they are most likely gonna keep those receipts to blame us.