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[–]LiterallyawomanTERF IRL 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

Gay men are attracted to men even ones with “girl-dick” because they’re meeeeeeen

[–]PlayCardsNotPeople 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Right, but I've never seen an actual gay man get that much attention in a gay bar.

[–]LiterallyawomanTERF IRL 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Do you think they perceived them as doing drag and just found them attractive? If this person was trans but you can tell they’re uh, born male, men who like men will still find them attractive. Look at all the gay relationships in Anne Rice novels for example-men loving femme or beautiful men/vampires

[–]PlayCardsNotPeople 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No idea what they thought, that's why I asked here, because it had been puzzling me.

[–]Criticallacitirc 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Sometimes back when I would bring a girl with me to gay bars, I would find the girl would get a lot of attention. I never quite figured out what the game was. I think its easier for them to go up to a girl , then hope they get attention from the guy(s) in the group. The dynamics of the way gay men interact with each other is all sorts of fucked up.

[–]PlayCardsNotPeople 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Weird. I love dancing in a gay bar full of dudes, cause I'm completely invisible, because, I'm not a dude.
It's not that they are ignoring me, it's that as far they are concerned, I don't exist. And the music's decent :)

[–]Veneficca 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Agree. I get a lot of attention from men in gay bars - some are "straight" guys taking their first steps out of the closet, and then reverting to what they know. But most are out guys who are hoping to meet my cute male friends by chatting me up.