I am finding those conversations exhausting and useless - ones that leading away from real problems.

They are saying "sex and gender are not the same" and then doing the opposite - saying "there no differences between transwoman and woman in sports" or calling transwomen - female.

They say one thing, but do the opposite.

I even saw sometimes them saying GC points and that it is what Gender Identity Activism is trying to achieve, while in reality doing the opposite. People reading it - seeing that their points are legit and reasonable, and going away. Or they are pushing the goals. They will say "we only want to pee", but will demand all the other things. They will say "all we want is people to stop killing us", but then sneaky from behind demand much more (like in that comic https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qBJv5D-ZRyA).

It is so full of DARVO. Thought, I must admit that most likely most of them actually believing in what they say - because if they made themselves believe that one lie is truth, and made all this mind-dances to turn off logic and make believe that men are women - then this will affect their general thinking and will make it much easier for other similar lies to become reasonable to them. Just like in cults - words and ideas are "changed" to mean something else, same is here.