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[–]QueenBread 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Look, I think it's interesting that you're trying to make it seem like FTM are as dangerous as MTF, but.... newsflash.... they're not. Even if they dress up like males and go in gay males places, they're still a woman surrounded by men. Not comparable at all as a MTF going into a lesbian place, that is.... a man surrounded by women.

[–]gencritcurious[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

if im honest, my naivety probably comes from the fact that i’ve never been in actual physical lesbian spaces (since im a minor). ofc, i agree with the idea that it would be much more frightening to see a man walk into a lesbian bar than a woman walk into a gay bar, but i think that us women need to throw gay men a little sympathy. gay women need to deal with aggressive (if somewhat sparse) males, and gay men need to deal with hordes of rude (but weaker) females. I also think that tifs have much more strength in numbers online, which is where tifs are the most bold and invasive towards gay men.