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[–]moody_ape 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

OP says that it's ok if the TIM is post-op. i still think they are putting themselves in danger. the other person might notive there is something 'different' and things can get bad really fast. i think it's for validation, yes. if they can get away with it, it means they are perceived as women. i wonder people have sex with OP out of politeness... because they have basically 2 options in case they notice they are with a TIM and don't really want to go on: pretend they didn't notice anything and keep going or saying "i'm not into trans people" and being accused of transphobia (3rd option would be a hate crime, which i don't agree with). if OP is a 'transbian', i think the first option is what ends up happening most of the times (if not all).