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[–]112223sps 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I have a hard time believing their partners don't know something is up. Like come on. They're probably just using them, but then the TIMs think they're sooo valid

[–]moody_ape 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

or maybe they are having sex out of politeness and/or because they don't want to be accused of transphobia. this seems specially believable if OP is 'transbian' (it's not clear from the original post). it's common for women to do that. we get scared of possible violence due to rejection, we don't know how to get out of the situation, we feel sorry for the other person, etc. so we end up having sex even though we don't want to.