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[–]TheOnyxGoddess[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

They're BOTH still big problems. None of what you said doesn't change the fact TiFs are also perpetuating this bullshit. I was disappointed that we're not talking about them more. They're part of the reason of why people feel that being trans is a valid thing. If one group sees one of them do it, then the other group thinks it's valid (TiMs seeing TiFs transitioning will feel that "hey it's not just those as a male). Logically if we're going to help women, we should be countering gender stereotype ideology on BOTH SIDES as they're both validating each other's delusons of "being in the wrong body". If only the males are doing this, shouldn't be as a big if a problem, but I'm seeing females (and one of them who I know in real life outright demands on their tumblr strangers should follow their made up pronouns, but not their close family and friends) doing this and validating the ideology. If it's only one group then we can all say "Yeah typical males, being drama queens" and it'll be much easier to argue that TiMs are truly deluded.

[–]RevengeOfTheCis 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

Of course they are also a problem. I didn't say they aren't a problem, but one is clearly the bigger problem.

To be honest, your post just irked me because I'm sick of posts that complain about what we talk about here. If you want to talk about something else, why don't you talk about it? No one is stopping you (or anyone else who complains about the posts here) from posting about what you want.

Making a "why don't we talk about TIFs" post is a waste of time when you could, you know... make a post talking about TIFs?

[–]TheOnyxGoddess[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

  1. I never accused you of saying anything (please provide proof), I'm just saying that it doesn't matter which one is the bigger problem, they're both still very problematic.

  2. I made that post because there's a bias towards TiM's and it seems like we're largely ignoring TiFs and considering I haven't seen anyone complain about what I'm complaining on this forum specifically, either I'm the first or it's that uncommon, so I made this post.

  3. I'm not the one researching and digging up crap related to trans people (currently not interested in uploading anything), I'm just here to read and I noticed a pattern. I'm hoping to see more people upload TiF stuff.

  4. This is a forum, anyone can post anything here as long as it follows guidelines, why don't you just report me while you're at it?

  5. Freedom of speech and freedom of choice, don't want to read it, then don't read it. I don't control your choices in life, you do that yourself I'm asking a question to also figure out if I want to hang around this sub, however, that's none your business and you seem to care more about how much my post irked you.

  6. Glad I irked you.

Making a "your post annoys me" reply is a waste of time when you could, you know...read a different post or complain to admins?

[–]RevengeOfTheCis 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

I'm so glad there's laugh reacts on this site lolololol

[–]TheOnyxGoddess[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I'm so glad there're laugh reacts on this site too, but MORE IMPORTANTLY there're people who remember TiFs are also a big problem regardless if TiMs are doing the most damage or not.

[–]RevengeOfTheCis 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Ah, so you agree with me! TIFs are a big problem, but TIMs are doing more damage. Cool!

[–]TheOnyxGoddess[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Never said that too. If I did provide proof.