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    [–]Pomegranate 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

    It's not possible to date or marry someone without prioritizing them. Do you believe heterosexual women should be abstinent? Do you think heterosexual sex is bad?

    Edit: Also, saying radfems can be heterosexual but they can't have BFs or husbands means you don't really believe they can be heterosexual. Having BFs and husbands is kinda the entire idea/point of being heterosexual.

    [–]missdaisycan 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

    I disagee. (Hetero)sexuality is what a person finds attractive/arousing, it doesn't necessitate engaging in relationships. I am a Radfem who hasn't been in a relationship with a male for over 19 years. I am quite sexual, thank you, but the few times I've "hit it & quit it" just reinforced my own perception that any pairing with a male is to his benefit, and at my cost. In so many ways.

    [–]Pomegranate 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

    Casual sex is a type of "engaging" even if it's not a relationship, you're still acting out your heterosexual desires, you said you're sexual, I assume you mean sexual with men, so I don't see a difference. Having heterosexual sex is the point/idea of being heterosexual, not just being attracted and never acting on it. A relationship is just the manner that I personally choose to engage. If I decided that I never wanted to have sex with a man ever again I would consider myself asexual.

    [–]missdaisycan 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

    Then you and I shall agree to disagree, yes?

    [–]Pomegranate 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

    I thought you wanted to discuss, you replied to my comment saying you disagreed and why, and I was just returning with my own thoughts. Yes, of course you can disagree and move on. Sorry if I offended.

    [–]missdaisycan 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    And I appreciate hearing your perspective, that is part of why I spoke up. I am in no way offended, I simply felt our discussion had reached its end. :)

    [–]Pomegranate 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Okay, I'm glad. Have a good night!