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    [–]msteacherlady 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (16 children)

    So I'm a teacher, yeah? Top number one question I got asked by dates was "have you ever wanted to have sex with any of your students" followed by some fond memory my date would have about that time he looked down the blouse of a teacher who was trying to help him. So many men fetishize women's professions. Nurses get a lot of that too. Every time these guys went down that road it made me uncomfortable, and then I'd get accused of being dishonest or a prude if I didn't play along with what they were hoping I'd respond with. My career is important, people are trusting me with the care and education of their children, I'd take any career seriously as I have integrity. I cannot stand for someone reducing what I do for a living, and what I've been thoroughly educated to do, as a trifling, sexy romp.

    Now let's apply that to something as all-encompassing as our biological sex. Can you see what our problem is?

    [–]72ndGender 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

    I don't know you personally, but I can say that you either have the worst luck in the world, or you having a bad process for picking dates. No guy I have ever met would say something that stupid, and no girl/woman I know has ever been asked if they were into fucking children. Sorry that happened to you though. As a man, I get incredibly offended when accused of being into perverted sexual stuff, then called a liar, so I can imagine it's worse for you.

    [–]msteacherlady 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    Just to be clear, I'm a high school teacher. Some guys did bring up that surely some of my students were 18/looked like adults.

    Every time I share this story some dude rolls up saying pretty much what you're saying. Why do y'all feel so compelled? The best I can understand is that it was a banner year for hot female teachers raping their students in the news. You look at the comments on those stories and you'll find plenty of dudes stating they wished they had hot teachers in high school. It's not that rare of a sentiment. Hell, I remember when I was a kid getting a "back to school" issue of a video game magazine where they has some busty lady dressed as a sexy teacher posing next to whatever the article was on about. See also Van Halen.

    Don't feel too bad for me, I married the third guy that did not bring this shit up. He also has friends that would never say something that stupid. Doing something stupid, well, that's another story.

    [–]72ndGender 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Well all guys do stupid shit. It's in our nature. More risk, more reward. Or at least more fun.

    And at least some guys tried to not be pedo about it. They are still a minority of morons either way. Not that they don't exist. Maybe we feel "compelled" to say something because it's true and because you are talking about it. Just because you don't want to hear it, doesn't make it not exist. Don't speak about something if you don't want people to speak back. You aren't some kind of royalty that people have to bow to in silence.

    Those dudes commenting in those stories are the lowest form of degenerate beta scum. They are so desperate for sexual attention that they leak it everywhere they go. Still a minority of men, but guess what? I've heard women in my life say the exact same things. My sister and wife have both made that exact same comment and got lectured by me about it. Just because they wanted to fuck their teachers doesn't make it right for teachers to rape their students.

    [–]Literallyawoman 22 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    What’s the problem with men fetishizing women’s bodies and using their fetish to gain access to women’s spaces and women’s bodies through pressure to fuck them because if you don’t like “girl dick” you’re transphobic?

    What’s the problem with people with mental illness taking drugs and mutilating their bodies only to realize it doesn’t cure their depression, cure their dysphoria, or make the people they find attractive want to fuck date and love them? That they really were as a person more than one energy-sucking and meaningless label?

    What’s the problem with people losing all self-improvement and hobbies to become a one-toned sex obsessed freak who demands constant outside validation because they’re emotionally stunted and dysfunctional and instead of seeking viable mental aid they dig their heels into their illness and victim complex?

    Do you really think in ten years after Big Pharm has used these poor tools for all their $$ and energy and desperation for meaning they aren’t going to come to the hard realization they are not literally women, and being a literal women was never the source of their infinite self hatred and misery? That none of them want to be OLD or UGLY women but a sick sexist fantasy?

    That actual self love is so incredibly radical it means you can be you and work on yourself without calling yourself a special name or arguing with people who do not give a fuck what you call yourself and still owe you nothing on what your imaginary gender is? A rose by any other name. Lost souls want a new paint job when it’s the frame of their life that needs work.