I had to read and review sex curriculum several years ago in a woke location. At that time, they were generally fine. For the high school content, one of the curricula used the vague "people who have..." type language but most of them didn't. The actual sex ed and puberty information was really good in all of the curricula I read. It was much better than what I received when I went through school.

However, I saw an update to one of the ones I reviewed, and it replaced all of the girl/boy puberty language with "people who have..." language for all ages. I think this was done because of CA requirements for gender identity inclusivity in sex ed.

I expect many teachers will ignore it and use boy/girl but that there will be some fierce battles. I also expect that it will peak a lot of parents, who will learn for the first time that the dominant ideology in contemporary trans activism is actually trying to erase biology.