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[–]loveSloaneDebate King 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

No one is owed sex. Period. She was wrong to conceal her race from her partner.

You’ve tried this gotcha several times. The desire you have to justify or find a way around acknowledging that stealthing is rape is very disconcerting.

However, I’m willing to bet every cent I have that any heterosexual man who got misled into sleeping with a woman of a race he didn’t know she was would be a thousand times more upset and feel a thousand times more violated if he found out he had been misled into sleeping with an actual man.

ETA

My question is whether Clare’s behavior in regards to her having sex with said racist husband would also be considered rape by deception using the aforementioned logic of not disclosing potentially sexually disqualifying information to her sexual partner?

My question is why would it be okay for ANYONE to not disclose potentially sexually disqualifying information from a (hopefully just potential) sexual partner?

[–]HeimdeklediROAR[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You say it’s wrong. Does that mean you consider it rape by deception?

[–]loveSloaneDebate King 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I answered that already in another comment. Either way, it’s clear you’re still desperate to justify allowing tw to rape people.