Both: Are sexual stereotypes about men and women in the bedroom true?

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[–]peakingatthemomentTranssexual (natal male), HSTS 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

So, the first paragraph was more the one about my sexuality being like female sexuality, but even then I didn’t say it was exactly the same. I couldn’t know that because I’m not female, but I just feel like I have a lot in common with my friends. It’s just trying to compare what we like.

I don’t know why you are so stuck on anal sex. I rarely have anal sex and it’s not the only way I can be penetrated. Hopefully I don’t have to spell this out for you, but there is another option and it usually feels better anyway.

I’m not sure why I upset you so much, but you alway seem extremely hostile to me and attempt to take my words in the worst possible way. My comment had been here for most of a month and no other GC women though I was saying what you thought I was saying.

[–]adungitit 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I don’t know why you are so stuck on anal sex.

Because I consistently see male trans people and gay men use it to imply that it gives them an understanding of female sexuality, or makes them more like "girls". It is a common fetish in gay and trans communities, and it slips into serious claims that then get used in activism. The obviously faulty notion that being penetrated makes one a woman is pretty ubiquitous in our culture and this gets used against women all the time, to pressure them into penetrative sex, to define them as submissive because of it and for men to get off to these ideas.

you always seem extremely hostile to me and attempt to take my words in the worst possible way.

I take these statements in ways I consistently see them used. I do despise the logic they employ, but if you don't stand by them, then I don't take issue with you personally.

[–]peakingatthemomentTranssexual (natal male), HSTS 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Because I consistently see male trans people and gay men use it to imply that it gives them an understanding of female sexuality, or makes them more like "girls".

I would engage with someone who believes that then.

I do despise the logic they employ, but if you don't stand by them, then I don't take issue with you personally.

Everything I said was consistent with my original comment.

[–]adungitit 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I would engage with someone who believes that then.

I engage with anyone who makes claims consistent with that. People claiming they believe or don't believe something independent of their claims is 100% irrelevant to me.