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[–]peakingatthemomentTranssexual (natal male), HSTS 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I don’t really feel like anything needs to change to accommodate me. I just want to be able to continue to exist how I am comfortable. I feel like for me that means being able have my sex be a private matter outside of medical and partners. That’s how it has been for most of my life and it’s been good for me. I really just want to be able to blend in and live a quiet life as I have done.

[–]loveSloaneDebate King[S] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I do get why trans people want to keep their sex a secret, even if I disagree. I don’t agree with the legal sex change stuff, but I get where you’re coming from generally. I guess I wish that we could get to a point where it doesn’t matter what sex is on someone’s identification. I’d rather trans people have a different marker altogether and or that it be safe and not an issue for it to be factual if that makes sense. I don’t mean to offend you or anything, sorry if that’s rude.

[–]peakingatthemomentTranssexual (natal male), HSTS 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You didn’t offend me. 😊

FWIW, I feel like I understand why GC people might not be comfortable with parts of this like legal sex change. I feel like maybe we could come together to fight against things like self-ID. That puts females and TW like me in danger in a similar way so I feel like we could ally against that and in support of more gate keeping.