The fact that no oral sex, anal, porn is a deal breaker for most men proves that you have to be masochistic to enjoy dating men and being a het woman. And that you must like being humiliated and getting fucked like a piece of meat and letting man ejaculate their stinky fluid on you. U HAVE TO SUBMIT

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[–]kt0998 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Men are obsessed with anal because they know it wont make women cum. That's what they like about it. They hate the idea of female pleasure, unless the woman is having an orgasm from being degraded and abused, because then it shows how broken she is. But if a woman is just relaxed and having fun and feeling good? Nothing is a bigger turn-off to men. That's why you never see normal sex like that on porn, ever. The women are always squealing like pigs in slaughter house, listen to the noises, they sound like they are in pain. Their expressions are like in pain, like they are about to cry. They move and act in every way like they are suffering, that's what's hot to men. And the weird baby talk and acting and looking like children. Men HATE FEMALE PLEASURE, they can't get it up if a woman is enjoying herself. They are simply programmed to be rapists and sadists.

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"Men like anal because women don't."

Title says it all. The main reason men like anal isn't because its tighter or anything like that. We like anal because women hate it. There is just something about inflicting pain on someone and having them willingly tolerate it. It's like a proof of their love towards you. Or I am just a sadistic bastard idk.

Straight from the horse's mouth

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Fully agree with your comment. Men get off on inflicting pain on women. Anal sex is appealing to men because it's likely to hurt women and it's associated with "tainting" a woman by making her do something degrading. Porn amplifies this in every way possible.

Growing up, I viewed sex as an act focused on giving and receiving pleasure, and strengthening an intimate connection between two people. But seeing, hearing, and reading the way men talk about sex was eye-opening for me. Treating women with sweetness and genuine affection is "weak" or "gay" (lol) for a man to do. Men talk about sex like it's a way for them to conquer or ruin women.

I resent the fact that it's become taboo in feminist circles to talk about all the messed up ways men view sex. Instead, women are encouraged to compete with men on who can be the most apathetic, violent, and demeaning when it comes to sex. It's not "cool" to see sex as something that should require trust, safety, respect, intimacy, and affection. But maybe most women do want to be degraded during sex. Even though I'm blackpilled, that's something I still struggle to accept sometimes.

[–]lurkergirl 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

What do you think of this?

https://factcheckme.wordpress.com/2010/06/11/trauma-bonding/

[–]kt0998 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It seems believable but I still wont give women a free pass to pander to misogynist males. Being traumatized doesn't take away your agency, get some fucking help and stop ruining things for everyone. Those women have no regrets or shame and they don't care at all about how they impact other women, in other words they have no solidarity and they are traitors basically. Their reasons don't matter from my perspective.

I also think that blogpost is typical radfem logic that denies that women are already submissive by nature. It's not just about bonding due to fear and trauma, it's also because most straight women genuinely enjoy being submissive, being owned, being at man's mercy, getting knocked up, being violated etc. They enjoy the thought of those things even before it happens, even if at the same time they freak them out. That's why they never stop doing it even when they know it harms them on some level. This is just the natural way heterosexual bonding works and women evolved to go along with it and like it as much as men did. Those of us who reject it are the rare exception, not the norm.