It seems believable but I still wont give women a free pass to pander to misogynist males. Being traumatized doesn't take away your agency, get some fucking help and stop ruining things for everyone. Those women have no regrets or shame and they don't care at all about how they impact other women, in other words they have no solidarity and they are traitors basically. Their reasons don't matter from my perspective.

I also think that blogpost is typical radfem logic that denies that women are already submissive by nature. It's not just about bonding due to fear and trauma, it's also because most straight women genuinely enjoy being submissive, being owned, being at man's mercy, getting knocked up, being violated etc. They enjoy the thought of those things even before it happens, even if at the same time they freak them out. That's why they never stop doing it even when they know it harms them on some level. This is just the natural way heterosexual bonding works and women evolved to go along with it and like it as much as men did. Those of us who reject it are the rare exception, not the norm.