Are you only attracted to masculinity or femininity, or do you like both?

submitted by throwaway999 from self.Bisexuals

And please include your definitions of masculinity and femininity. I'm talking about psychology and sexuality, not just superficial things like makeup, clothes, or hair length.

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[–]suzew 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I like both

[–]BiHorror 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My personal definition? Femininity to me is someone who's "soft" (note: NOT in a bad way). They're gentle, nurturing, caring, etc. For masculinity, someone who's tough in one word. Someone who can take the lead.

This also involves appearance but I won't get into that.

I like feminine women. For men, I like masculine men. So both but for specific sexes? I mean, I could like masculine women, but there's a specific type of masculine that I like (which borders more onto androgynous if anything). Not necessarily into feminine men.

[–]Newbie27 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I like femininity way more. I find myself super attracted to feminine looking straight women the most, as a bisexual woman that prefers women. I myself am very masculine for a woman, pretty butch myself. The type of feminine women I like are, for example, mariana larrabure de orbegoso who was miss peru 1998.

[–]Newbie27 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My definition of femininity is a classically beautiful woman, who radiates a feminine energy, and carries herself gracefully, you'll know it when you see it type of thing.