i read throughout your entire conversation with the other bisexual and there seems to be a massive difference in your values. You seem to have constructed a narrative judging by your comment history to deflect blame from bisexuals on to gays/lesbians instead of just owning up to certain problems. And it's not just here. It seems that multiple bisexuals have tried approaching you and you seem to be, as one gay guy put it, "narcissistic" and self centered, as if you're competing with gays and lesbians for the moral high ground in a game of who can be the most petty. Just so you understand, there is no magical "bisexual cult" that you're secretly looking for since bisexuals are intimately tied to the gay and lesbian community. So this hierarchy game you're playing doesnt help you in any way. If your primary concern isnt about humanizing same sex attraction, then you're exactly what multiple people in your comment sections called you.

First you were a victim of gays and lesbians, and now any bisexual (it seems the majority of them) who point out the flaws in your thinking are self hating? Im gay and i noticed she knows far more about gays/lesbians than you ever will and what causes tension between bisexuals and homosexuals. She's interested in solutions and you're interested in throwing rocks and smearing your shit all over the walls and putting up a stink to the point where your antics become so intolerable that you "win"...but we're not in elementary school so that wont happen. You just make people wary of you.

And just look at the way you talk of everyone because you assume theyre as malicious and malevolent as you: "im well aware of bisexual women who pretend to be lesbians to gain access to lesbian communities" as if these people are "breaking in" to the lesbian community as theives. You just project so much of your psychology into your words. No. No. Lesbians and gays are fully aware that if something triggers a bisexual child in their environment somehow and they experience their same sex attraction first, then they just get brainwashed into thinking theyre gay and their attraction to the same sex is ignored because theyre "contaminated by the almighty gay" and because of internalized homophobia, overwhelms their attraction to the opposite sex.

There are A LOT of these people within our community. We marry them, they love us, theyre our friends and they strategically kept their mouths shut to specifically protect gays/lesbians because if anyone ever heard of some 15 year old girl who, because of internalized homophobia thought she was just a lesbian and ignored a large part of her attraction to men, the heterosexuals would hold her up as some magical hero and that ALL gays and lesbians could be "saved" like she was. Some of our gay/lesbian activists and leaders (the very effective ones) were bisexual as well. Since you seem very self centered and narcissistic, i guess you might find this unimaginable but as an act of love and protection for gays/lesbians...they just said they were homosexuals and kept their bisexuality hidden until their fight was over so their bisexuality wouldnt be used to kill gay/lesbian kids with conversion therapy rhetoric or delegitmize same sex attraction.

Just look at your sentences: "if lesbians gave you PERMISSION to identify as a lesbian"....as if it's some power struggle/fight between bisexuals and homosexuals that you desperately want to win, so when gays/lesbians express frustration, you dont see vulnerability or concerns but problems to rub in their faces as a homophobe. And trust me, you VERY MUCH are a deep, deep homophobe and it shows. I wonder what YOUR answer would be if "straight women gave you "permission" to identify as straight".

You desperately want to make your problems into everyone else's drama by turning your lack of empathy into a giant shit show between gays/lesbians vs bi people but so many other bisexuals dont seem to have the same problems as you. It almost seems like no matter how much "older" you are, you think going to 1 or 2 gay bars somehow made you understand who and what gays/lesbians are, yet you openly made a post saying you dont understand why homosexuals care about their civil rights and "whats the big deal". Funny how you complain about barriers being put in place between homosexuals and some homophobic bisexuals but so many bisexuals have absolutely no problem crossing those barriers but you seem to struggle with them. Almost like there's a reason for that.